I am a sensitive person and often seem to be more challenged on a day to day basis than other tougher people. I also am often very candid and honest, which can inadvertently end up being uncomfortable for others.
For example its often more of a problem for me, dealing with people and situations. s
I once was asked a favor by a person to help some one else. It was as simple as giving them a ride home. I was a little puzzled. I travel often in this group and have had to travel alone in several situations, without this person ever offering me a ride home, though we live in the same direction. I have always let it go. When he kept asking me to give this other group mate a ride, I obliged as she was a woman.....
But this person did not leave well enough alone. As my family came to pick me up and I was hurriedly proceeding to the vehicle, he ran after me wanting a ride to the point from where he can proceed further. This would have been not very comfortable for various reasons; One, with two women in the back seat, a third male would be not very convenient; Also with my family and my co-mate's husband picking her up on the way, a male travelling with us would not be comfortable.
Any way, while I felt bad saying no, I still said it and told him there would not be place for him to travel with us. This was a guy who has helped me book tickets, etc. But still, I felt it would not be convenient under the circumstances.
If you are a sensitive person, learn to be more attuned to God and the Gurus. Do not be attuned to people around you. People can always betray you . Depending on them emotionally can be very hurtful. So derive your energy from above and give your blessing to people around you. Don't seek to take from people around you but give. Then you are never betrayed.
Meditation, prayer has made more stronger and helped me to deal with people more firmly.
For example its often more of a problem for me, dealing with people and situations. s
I once was asked a favor by a person to help some one else. It was as simple as giving them a ride home. I was a little puzzled. I travel often in this group and have had to travel alone in several situations, without this person ever offering me a ride home, though we live in the same direction. I have always let it go. When he kept asking me to give this other group mate a ride, I obliged as she was a woman.....
But this person did not leave well enough alone. As my family came to pick me up and I was hurriedly proceeding to the vehicle, he ran after me wanting a ride to the point from where he can proceed further. This would have been not very comfortable for various reasons; One, with two women in the back seat, a third male would be not very convenient; Also with my family and my co-mate's husband picking her up on the way, a male travelling with us would not be comfortable.
Any way, while I felt bad saying no, I still said it and told him there would not be place for him to travel with us. This was a guy who has helped me book tickets, etc. But still, I felt it would not be convenient under the circumstances.
If you are a sensitive person, learn to be more attuned to God and the Gurus. Do not be attuned to people around you. People can always betray you . Depending on them emotionally can be very hurtful. So derive your energy from above and give your blessing to people around you. Don't seek to take from people around you but give. Then you are never betrayed.
Meditation, prayer has made more stronger and helped me to deal with people more firmly.
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